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(Magic) Trick or (Movie) Treat

Posted on Oct 31st, 2007 by ~C4Chaos : (hyper)linker ~C4Chaos

(Crossposted from www.c4chaos.com)

It's Halloween night and I've got nothing to do. It's no fun to spend it alone so I thought of watching Saw IV and scream with strangers in the theater. But I just remembered that tonight is Phenomenon night! Dang. So which would it be? Watch some magic tricks or treat myself to a movie...

Ok fine. I'm going with the magic trick. I'll just go check out Saw IV this weekend.

Speaking of Phenomenon, it's my new favorite reality TV show. It's ten times more exciting than American Idol. Seriously.

Case in point: Check out this mentalist named Eran Raven. He did a live Nailgun Russian Roulette last week. Even Criss Angel was impressed. He's got my vote.

Phenomenon - Russian roulette


Tonight I'm looking forward to the only female illusionist on the show, Angela Funovits. Let's see if her looks and talent can steal the show.

So yeah, I think I better go now and grab some food because I'll be a happy camper tonight, alone, watching some live magic tricks on a reality TV show.
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Staged Phenomenon?

Posted on Nov 1st, 2007 by ~C4Chaos : (hyper)linker ~C4Chaos

(Crossposted from www.c4chaos.com)

So I was watching the reality TV show Phenomenon earlier this evening. I was impressed and entertained by the performances of the illusionists and mentalists in the show. Then this Jim Callahan guy did his "paranormal" performance. His trick performance was to guess an object inside a locked box. The object was chosen from a list of 100 items and was placed in the box by a guest, without Callahan's knowledge, of course. Then Callahan did a seance on live TV and channeled a dead author named Raymond. He did an automatic writing and behaved as if he was in agony while doing the channeling. He did managed to guess the content of the box. Swell.

And so it was time for the critics to evaluate Callahan's performance. Uri Geller gave Callahan a good evaluation, saying that his performance was "very convincing."  Now it was Criss Angel's turn to say something about Callahan's performance. Instead of evaluating the performance, Angel said, "I think it's comical, quite frankly." And then Angel whipped out an envelope and challenged him and Uri Geller to guess what was in the envelope. Angel said that he would give a million dollars (of his own money) if anyone could guess what was inside. Callahan became confrontational and called Angel an "ideological bigot." And then an altercation ensued.

But enough talk. Here's the video for your entertainment pleasure.
Jim Callahan reveals Criss Angel as an ideological bigot


So why did Criss Angel acted like a jerk and exposed Jim Callahan on live TV. Well, one possibility is that Criss Angel really hates frauds who claim supernatural or paranormal powers. Here's an excerpt from his interview on Larry King the day before the show.

KING: Is that a trick?

ANGEL: That -- put it this way, no one has the ability, that I'm aware of, to do anything supernatural, psychic, talk to the dead. And that was what I said I was going to do with "Phenomenon." If somebody goes on that show and claims to have supernatural psychic ability, I'm going to bust them live and on television. That's what Houdini did for more than half of his life, because those people prey on the vulnerable.


And Criss Angel stuck to his guns. He's been planning this all along. He made a mockery out of Jim Callahan's "paranormal" performance on live TV. Now, it's also possible that this "altercation" was staged from the very beginning to boost ratings and to get clueless bloggers to blog about the incident. Ahem. But even if it was staged it still looked cool on TV. And if it wasn't staged then it's double the coolness. It's entertaining to see frauds get exposed on live TV. If Jim Callahan is the real deal then he could've just accepted Angel's challenge and went home with a million bucks, and made Angel look like an a**hole. But since I'm a skeptic myself, I think it's all an act. There I said it.

But what I really want to see is for Uri Geller and Criss Angel to get it on. I sense a tension between the two. Here's Geller who believes in the supernatural and paranormal while Angel is a skeptic that would make the Amazing Randi proud. Ah, well. Those two were paired for a reason: Good TV.

Anyway, I did enjoy the performances of the other contestants. They're all awesome. But my vote for the evening goes to the lone woman (Angela Funovits). She's got charisma (ok, fine, she's hot too), and her performance was the most emotional. She was literally shaking after her perfomance. I also dig the guy (Guy Bavli) who stopped his heart on live TV. All their tricks were impressive. But it was all about the performance. I'm gonna tune in next week for sure.

UPDATE (11/02/07): Here's Criss Angel talking to Access Hollywood about the incident. Some people may not agree with his views on the paranormal. But I think he has an excellent point.

Criss Angel Talks ' Phenomenon' Confrontation – All Access Magician Criss Angel talks to Access about the confrontation that broke out on the NBC television show “Phenomenon” between himself and Jim Callahan, one of the show's contestants.
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I Hire Dead People

Posted on Nov 1st, 2007 by ~C4Chaos : (hyper)linker ~C4Chaos

(Crossposted from www.c4chaos.com)

After seeing this ad on Jim Callahan's website, I now understand why Criss Angel acted like a jerk on live TV during last night's Phenomenon.


JOB OPENINGS FOR THE DEAD

(Sign up now before it's too late!)
Possible $1,000,000.00 Here.


I am currently searching for persons who would like to work with in my future productions and experiments.

I have openings starting as early as December 1st when rehearsal for my new show begins. You will receive billing as being part of the show and compensated for your assistance.

I am in need of people who are interested in employment after their deaths. You must fill out the employment form found here.

.....

Those who commit suicide are not eligible for a position in this current show and will not be considered for inclusion in our data base nor are those who are murdered by those wishing to get someone into the show (though we have found this ad being forwarded to those who wish their coworkers the best of luck in finding a new job with us!).

Those who will be dead as a result of capital punishment or euthanasia will be considered on a case by case basis.

Read more.



Whoah! You mean I can be employed after my death? Wow! Do I have to pay taxes too? This is just plain silly to me.

As much as I want to believe in psi and the paranormal, I'm with Criss Angel on this one.

Anyway, I don't care too much about this altercation at this point because it takes away the attention from the other contestants who are more entertaining.

Case in point: Angela Funovits gets my vote. See her emotional performance in this video.

Angela Funovits - Phenomenon


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Bill Clinton @ Seattle

Posted on Nov 2nd, 2007 by ~C4Chaos : (hyper)linker ~C4Chaos

(Crossposted from www.c4chaos.com)





I just found out that Bill Clinton was scheduled to drop by Seattle today to do a book signing for his latest book, Giving: How Each of Us Can Change the World. At first I wasn't sure whether to go or not because it would be a hassle to wait in line. But at the last minute I decided to go and check it out.

Just as I expected, there was already a long line when I got to the University Bookstore. They've alloted 500 book vouchers for the book signing. The line extended from the basement floor up to the second floor. I ended up midway at the basement floor. I read science text books to pass the time.

Clinton is still very popular. The crowd was as diverse as you can get. He still has that charisma, especially with young people. Too bad we weren't allowed to take pictures. For security reasons we had to check in our stuff before we even got close to him. Secret service agents were strategically positioned. They reminded me of the agents in The Matrix. The students behind me were betting whether Clinton would be wearing casual (jeans) or formal clothing. Clinton was wearing a suit. He was standing there, looking as presidential as ever, as he signs copies of his book.

"It's a pleasure to meet you, sir," was all I could say as I shook his right hand while he signs my copy of the book with his left. He's taller than me. He has that dignified look. He looks older in person. The lines on his face reminded me of Robert Redford. He smiled and expressed his gratitude. His smile looked sincere yet his motions seemed robotic. Well, there was just too many people and no time for small talk. He had to crank out those signatures to accommodate everyone. The experience was over in 5 seconds. As soon as he signed his name the line had to move on.

The book looks interesting. The theme matches well with my work at Zaadz and my interest with social enterprise. And how many times do I get the chance to shake hands with an ex-President of the United States, and potential First Gentleman, should Hillary Clinton win the 2008 Presidential election? The 4-hour wait was worth it.
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Where's the first place you go online?

Posted on Nov 3rd, 2007 by ~C4Chaos : (hyper)linker ~C4Chaos
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for November 03, 2007:

I use Firefox as my main application and the default page is the Firefox Start page which uses Google as a search engine.

But the first place I go online is actually Gmail. Why? Because my Zaadz work email is set up with Gmail. The first thing I do when I wake up in the morning is check my email to see if I have email from my team members, or if there are some notifications and things I need to get done on Zaadz.

From there I go to my Zaadz page and check my zMail to see if I have some emails from members who need help on the site. Then I check my Zaadz blog to see if anyone commented on my blog posts. And then I check my friends' activity page to see what my friends are up to and join in the conversations that interest me.

After that I check the news: NYTimes (email alert), Google News, and read my RSS feeds (from blogs) using Google Reader.

So that's my start up routine.

As you can see, I'm very dependent on Google and I'm literally logged in to Zaadz the whole day, doing work and having fun at the same time :)

So my ideal home page would be a lot similar to iGoogle and Netvibes wherein I can add widget boxes containing the most frequent data I access (email, news, RSS feeds, etc) and especially data from my preferred social networking service, which is Zaadz. The services are already here. And with the arrival of Google's OpenSocial, things will get more interesting in the social networking arena. I expect the Web to be more social than ever. That's good news for our growing community.

Case in point: Check out these bunch of developers gathered around a campfire talking about geeky stuff.
Campfire One: Introducing OpenSocial


But speaking of home pages, I'm just too lazy to set it up. But now that I've mentioned it, I better start customizing my iGoogle home page so I can save some time clicking around.
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Lessig: Is Google (2008) Microsoft (1998)? (aka Supercapitalism)

Posted on Nov 3rd, 2007 by ~C4Chaos : (hyper)linker ~C4Chaos

(Crossposted from www.c4chaos.com)



Last night me and my good friend Dave attended a lecture by Lawrence Lessig at the University of Washington. The title of the lecture: Is Google (2008) Microsoft (1998)?

As usual, Lawrence Lessig delivered another brilliant and insightful presentation. He deserved the standing ovation. He packed more information in one hour of lecture than I can digest. Good thing I took some notes. Here are some bumper sticker notes:

-- "the data is the platform"
-- "comedy of the commons"
-- "lawyers are not innovators"
-- "silly to moralize a corporation"
-- "Microsoft is not evil"
-- "support the competition"
-- "politics diverted"

I hope that Lessig posts a video of that presentation so I can share it with everyone. Really good stuff.

In the meantime, allow me to share some of the nuggets of wisdom I got out of that lecture.

First, the title of the lecture is a bit misleading. It's more like a hook to get people to pay attention. Mention Google and Microsoft and heads would turn immediately. But I'm not disappointed one bit. In fact, Lessig delivered more than what was promised by the title. Here's my attempt at summarizing the lecture.

Lessig started his trademark Powerpoint presentation with the story of how Microsoft lost its "coolness." And then he proceeded with the story of how Google now dominates the tech industry, while still maintaining its "coolness" factor -- the data is now the platform. In his storytelling he covered his usual topics such as copyright, creative commons, read-only/read-write culture, economies of culture (e.g. hybrid companies), and corruption. But those topics, as interesting and fascinating as they were, were only ingredients to the meat of the lecture.

The real meat of the lecture is: the eroding of trust by the public on the government and the misplace of this trust on "good" corporations undermine our democracy.

Lessig concluded his lecture by pitching the book Supercapitalism by Robert Reich. The arguments in this book (which Lessig agrees with) go contrary to the popular idea of Corporate Social Responsibility. Here's an excerpt on Lessig's blog:

"The problem, from Reich's (and my) perspective, is that the other half of us - the part that thinks not as an actor in a market, but as a citizen - has atrophied. That is, the half of us (again, of each of us - Reich's point is that each of us has these two parts) that demands that government set sensible and efficient limits on private action has atrophied. Deep skepticism about government has made most of us turn away from it as a tool of sensible policy making. We instead (and this is a truly brilliant part of the book) turn to corporations to make good policy in government's stead. We push for "corporate social responsibility" and praise corporations who agree to do the "good" thing, imagining that this means something other than the "money making" thing. This, Reich says, is "politics diverted" - trusting companies to do good policy rather than getting government to set good policy, imagining "corporate social responsibility" will produce something different from corporations maximizing profits."

....

"Corporations are not more efficient governments. They are instead increasingly efficient money making machines. And while there's nothing at all wrong with money making machines -- indeed, wealth and growth depends upon them -- there is something fundamentally wrong with trusting these machines to restrain the drive for profits in the name of doing the right thing."


And this, for me, is the most important nugget of wisdom from that lecture. As much as I support and love the idea of Corporate Social Responsibility and Conscious Capitalism, I also admire Lawrence Lessig's brilliance so I pay attention to his arguments. So I'll be adding Supercapitalism to my reading list. It would be interesting to see how I can hold these opposing views and still manage to do the right thing, at least in my own sphere of influence.

For more info on Supercapitalism, keep watching this bookmark tag:
http://coolmel.zaadz.com/bookmarks/tagged/supercapitalism

I now leave you with this excerpt from a Robert Reich interview on Forbes:

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Forbes.com: Doesn't the increase in consumer power allow the average American a greater opportunity to act as a citizen both of the U.S. and of the world?

Robert Reich: If consumers were willing to sacrifice good deals for the sake of some social goal they believed in--for example, paying more for a garment with a label guaranteeing it's not made by children in a poor country or for a book that's made with recycled paper--then you're right: Supercapitalism, as I've called it, would serve the interests of us both as consumers and as citizens. But the overwhelming evidence shows that consumers are not willing to make such sacrifices. If items are priced the same, consumers will choose the one that better matches their personal ethics, but they won't pay more for one that does.

Consumers are acting logically, because they have no guarantee that other consumers would make the same choice--meaning that their sacrifice would be pointless. The only way to make sure any such economic sacrifice is effective is to seek laws and rules that match one's ethical values.

That's where citizenship and democracy come in. It's through the democratic process that the economic "rules of the game" are determined--rules that all consumers and all private-sector competitors have to play by.

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Group Selection Trumps Selfish Gene

Posted on Nov 5th, 2007 by ~C4Chaos : (hyper)linker ~C4Chaos

Nice. Looks like the theory of evolution needs some revision.

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Goodbye Selfish-Gene: A New Upheaval in the Science of Human Behavior

"For nearly half a century, the evolution of human behavior has been presented to the public framed by the ideas of Edward O. Wilson, Richard Dawkins, and a cohort of sociobiologists, evolutionary psychologists, and media gene-mongers. The scientific basis for the frame is the idea that the focus of Darwinian natural selection is the selfish gene, selection always acting within groups and never between groups -- individual selection rather than group selection, the unit of selection the gene. From this has followed the selfish-gene evolutionary analysis of various human behaviors, especially the analysis of altruism.

"Well, it seems that the father of sociobiology, E.O. Wilson has changed his mind: in the current issue of New Scientist (November 3, 2007), evolutionary biologists David Sloan Wilson and Edward O. Wilson effectively end the hegemony of the selfish gene idea: they review the field and declare in a voice loud and clear that group selection was mistakenly cast aside during previous decades, that the evidence for group selection is too strong to be ignored, and that the current ideas about how evolution works need to be revised."

Read more


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But is the selfish gene theory really dead? Or can it still be used as a theory when it comes to individual organisms?

For example, using the AQAL model, can selfish gene theory be used to explain the Upper Right, while the group selection theory can be used to explain the Lower Right? In short, can the selfish gene theory co-exist with group selection theory?

I don't have access to the whole New Scientist article, Evolution: Survival of the selfless,  so I don't know the details of this new groundbreaking revision to Evolution theory. I'm awaiting Richard Dawkins' reaction on this one.

This is what's awesome about science. Everything can be questioned and revised.

Thanks to Integral Research Group for the heads up!
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What the Critics of the New Atheists Don't See

Posted on Nov 5th, 2007 by ~C4Chaos : (hyper)linker ~C4Chaos

(Crossposted from www.c4chaos.com)

Recently, Theodore Dalrymple wrote an eloquoent critique of the New Atheists, What the New Atheists Don't See. The main argument:

"The curious thing about these books is that the authors often appear to think that they are saying something new and brave. They imagine themselves to be like the intrepid explorer Sir Richard Burton, who in 1853 disguised himself as a Muslim merchant, went to Mecca, and then wrote a book about his unprecedented feat. The public appears to agree, for the neo-atheist books have sold by the hundred thousand. Yet with the possible exception of Dennett’s, they advance no argument that I, the village atheist, could not have made by the age of 14 (Saint Anselm’s ontological argument for God’s existence gave me the greatest difficulty, but I had taken Hume to heart on the weakness of the argument from design)."

And then Dalrymple went on and extensively quoted Joseph Hall, a 17th century English bishop, to illustrate his point:

"Hall surely means us to infer that whatever happens to us, however unpleasant, has a meaning and purpose; and this enables us to bear our sorrows with greater dignity and less suffering. And it is part of the existential reality of human life that we shall always need consolation, no matter what progress we make."

Overall, Dalrymple's essay is a good read. As he pointed out, intentionality, meaning, and purpose seem to have taken a back seat in the recent books by the New Atheists because of their focus on the bad side of religion and their often sarcastic, confrontational, and polemic tones. However, as Sam Harris had pointed out in his rebuttal to Dalyrmple:

"In lieu of answering our arguments against faith—in lieu, even, of noticing them—Dalrymple simply misses the point of our books outright. He misses it petulantly at first, but his obliviousness to matters of substance soon swells to something like exultation. He then delivers what he clearly imagines to be the killing blow, comparing our misbegotten work to a few religious meditations he deems especially profound. Perhaps it was meant as a further insult to us that he sought to convey the invidious gulf between the "new atheists" and certain "Anglican divines of the seventeenth and eighteenth centuries" by furnishing the readers of this journal with some of the most banal religious meanderings ever recorded. But I fear there is not this much method in Dalrymple's madness. The man appears simply lost. He sees neither what is worst about religion, nor what is best, with anything like clarity."


As much as I applaud Dalyrmple's eloquent critique of the New Atheists (e.g. for bringing up intentionality, purpose and meaning), he didn't really advance the discussion one bit in his original essay. To me, all he basically said was something like, Oh, there's nothing new to your arguments. And you forgot to highlight the goodness of religion too. Huh? I wonder what Dalyrmple's argument about the state of the politics in the U.S. right now which is deeply influenced by Christian religious right? What are his views on the theocracy of Islam? What is his ranking when it comes to religion? Are there better religions out there, or should we treat them all as equals and respect them? These are just some of the questions that Harris attempted to address in his book, The End of Faith. These are questions that were not addressed by the Anglican theologians in the old days. The stakes are different now because of our interconnectedness, global awareness and technological prowess. The religious beliefs that divide us, more than ever, need to get criticized based on our current moral Zeitgeist (morality in the spirit of our times). And this is what the New Atheists are taking head on. Once again, they are reviving the old arguments on religion and the existence of God by the great philosophers and theologians, re-mixing it with the most current scientific theories, research and studies, and bringing it to mainstream attention -- a feat that was not accomplished by those bold Anglican theologians and philosophers due to the limits of science and the moral zeitgeist during their times.

It's a pity that Dalyrmple focused on a single quote from Sam Harris book and use this quote to dismiss the book altogether. Good thing that he acknowledged his intemperance, apologized to Sam Harris and then advanced his three main points for discussion.

"I understand why Mr. Harris feels strongly about the way in which I expressed myself, and perhaps I was a little intemperate, in which case I apologize.


"There seem to me three main points to discuss. First, the existence of God; second, the actual historical record of organized religion; third, the metaphysical difficulties of human existence without God.

"The arguments for and against the existence of God are by now pretty well rehearsed, and I do not think that any of the new atheists (I call them that because their books came out at about the same time) add anything much to them. They are not entirely to blame for this: it would take a very great philosopher to do so. I certainly have nothing new to say on the matter."

That's good. Because Dalyrmple's original essay made me feel stupid, callous, and deluded for recommending The End of Faith. Thanks to Sam Harris for his rebuttal.
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Mother Jones: The Moral Dilemma of Leaving Iraq

Posted on Nov 5th, 2007 by ~C4Chaos : (hyper)linker ~C4Chaos

The latest issue of Mother Jones is asking the right questions. Instead of just insisting to get out of Iraq now, its asking the more difficult questions of How?

U.S. Out How? The moral dilemma of leaving Iraq


"It started as Bush's war, but we all own it now—and it's time we took a hard look at what that means. Conversations with more than 50 experts, from General Petraeus' advisers to antiwar activists..."

Read more.

Check out this issue. There are lots of insightful articles from different perspectives.

Current Issue

Speaking of the Iraq war, here's Scott Adams' take on this FUBAR situation.

The Dilbert Blog: Why it was good to attack Iraq


"
Sometimes, just to test my point of view, I like to take the opposite side and defend it. For example, I think attacking Iraq was a huge mistake. So today I will make my best argument for the other side.

"First, you have to separate the outcome, which is unknown, from the original decision to attack. Hypothetically, it could be a good decision to attack, based on what you knew at the time, but things could go wrong for unforeseen reasons. Likewise, it could have been a bad decision to attack, based on the evidence at the time, and somehow by luck, things might turn out well. So you have to look at the decision and the outcome separately."

Read more and smirk.
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MindBodyGreen: Healthier and Greener Alternative to Digg

Posted on Nov 5th, 2007 by ~C4Chaos : (hyper)linker ~C4Chaos

I love using Digg. I discover a lot of cool news and articles everytime I check my Digg account. However, most of the time, it's too tech-centric and the mob effect is annoying. I prefer more positive and insightful articles with LOHAS flavor.

Enter: MindBodyGreen.


"MindBodyGreen is a place that enables you to share and discover information on better, healthier, greener living. All the content found on MindBodyGreen is submitted, commented, and voted on by the community -- people just like you!"


It's in early beta so it's not yet as streamlined as Digg. But I like the color scheme and the quality of the links appearing on the main page of the site. Check it out and generate some + (positive) energy :)

Kudos to Jason, Carver, and Tim for starting this project.
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Brian Johnson @ Falling Fruit: Conscious Business

Posted on Nov 6th, 2007 by ~C4Chaos : (hyper)linker ~C4Chaos

Brian gets interviewed on Falling Fruit! w00t! Check it out.

Arete and the Hero's Journey

"In this episode we talk with the founder and former CEO of Zaadz.com, Brian Johnson, and explore conscious business in relationship to areté, the classical Greek notion of living at one's highest potential, as well as the archetypal hero's journey. During our conversation we touch on how easy it is to look at people we admire and forget that they too struggled on their path to greatness."
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COAT4D: Conspicuous Consumption

Posted on Nov 6th, 2007 by ~C4Chaos : (hyper)linker ~C4Chaos

(Crossposted from www.c4chaos.com)

I've encountered the term "conspicuous consumption" while reading an interview with Andy Rubin (who is employed by Google).

"Mr. Rubin readily acknowledges his obsession with consumer gadgets and even more expensive toys — an obsession that put him at odds with Google’s stated aversion to conspicuous consumption.

"The day before Google went public in 2004, Wayne Rosing, then the vice president for engineering, stood on a stage during a companywide meeting and brandished a baseball bat. He threatened to use it on anyone’s car in the Google parking lot that was anything flashier than a 3 Series BMW.

"As a result, Mr. Rubin had to buy a new car when he came to Google. (A souped-up German sports car that he recently acquired sits at home in his garage.) He acknowledges the discomfort created by the situation. “One of the things that Google’s really good at is not encouraging conspicuous consumption,” he says. “I’m a big fan of well-engineered things, and so I’m wrestling with how those two things can coexist.”"

As defined in Wikipedia:

"Conspicuous consumption is a term used to describe the lavish spending on goods and services that are acquired mainly for the purpose of displaying income or wealth. In the mind of a conspicuous consumer, such display serves as a means of attaining or maintaining social status. A very similar but more colloquial term is 'keeping up with the Joneses'."


As much as I love the idea of *not* encouraging conspicuous consumption, it's tricky where to draw the line because what's conspicuous for other people might not be conspicuous to the one who's doing the consumption.

For example, I like to wear brand name jeans not because I want to show them off but because in my experience, I'm more comfortable wearing brand name jeans because they have better fit, they are soft, they don't smudge, and they last longer. I'm willing to switch to greener jeans but they're still mucho pricey for me. That's why I hang out at sale racks at Gap, The Limited and Banana Republic.

And if I can afford it, I'd really like to get a Lexus RX Hybrid (I don't do minivans, so this makes for a good family car too). Again, not for the intention of flaunting wealth, but because the Lexus brand has top notch engineering, lots of high-end features and has excellent customer service. This innocent preference might still be interpreted by others as conspicuous. Good thing I don't have this problem at the moment. I'm planning to ride my old car until it craps out on me.

My point is, it's all relative. However, there are indeed obvious signs when someone is spending lavishly to display their wealth – driving a Ferrari Enzo to work; wearing diamond blings on their teeth; private jet made of gold; spending hundreds of thousands on parties and flowers – and we can smell them from a mile away. I can't think of any justification for those except, “Hey, check out what I can afford!”

At the extreme end of the spectrum are billionaires. It's hard to be humble when you're a billionaire. The only high profile billionaire I know who is humble enough not to display his worth is Warren Buffett. Check out this article on Forbes.

Homes of the Billionaires

"Things have changed. While today's superrich still like to live in large houses, surrounded with the best that money can buy, they are much more individualistic. Their houses are more likely to reflect their own tastes and interests rather than adhering to a grand, though impersonal, style."

Very, very, conspicuous. Then again, on second thought, buying mansions is more of an investment than a consumption. These billionaires get a good return on their investments in the long run. Gah, it's easier to make money the more money you have.

Here's to conscious (not conspicuous) consumption.